The Anti-Anxiety Diet that Helped Me Reduce and Manage Anxiety

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If you’re looking for natural ways to reduce and manage your anxiety, and you’d like answers to the following questions, then you’ve come to the right place.

  • Can diet cause anxiety?
  • What kind of diet helps with anxiety?
  • What diet is best for anxiety?
  • How can I kill anxiety naturally?

In this article, I provide specific details about the anti-anxiety diet that helped me control my symptoms through food.

What is my anti-anxiety diet?

In a nutshell, it is a healthy and balanced diet that aims to optimize your intake of essential nutrients including carbohydrates, proteins, fats, vitamins and minerals and in their recommended amounts. 

The main ingredients include natural whole foods such as vegetables, whole grains, legumes, fruit, nuts and seeds, as well as fresh fish and lean meats. Though if you are vegan or vegetarian, you’ll be able to effectively replace the last two ingredients. 

Foods that are avoided on this diet include dairy, spices, and a few other items.

This anti-anxiety diet is simple and you won't need to buy any special or expensive ingredients or supplements. 

How did I come up with this diet?

After battling with chronic anxiety for 20 years I was given a basic anti-anxiety diet by an alternative health practitioner (phytotherapist). As I started to follow this diet, I quickly noticed positive changes in my anxiety, and this inspired me to start researching intensively about nutrition and mental health. 

Over time I perfected the basic diet that I was given and created my own version that is extremely effective at reducing and managing anxiety. 

While there are other anti-anxiety diets out there, I am only going to comment on the diet I have personally used and know that it works.

To give you some confidence, my anti-anxiety diet includes most of the nutrition and anxiety recommendations outlined by Uma Naidoo, M.D. an Instructor in Psychiatry at Harvard Medical School and Director of Nutritional and Lifestyle Psychiatry at Massachusetts General Hospital. But the recommendations by Dr. Naidoo are far less detailed than what you will find in this article.

So, please keep on reading as I have so much to teach you about anxiety and food. 


In general, an anti-anxiety diet is a healthy diet that's focused around foods that calm nerves and reduce inflammation, and restricts the consumption of anxiety trigger foods, as well as inflammatory foods. 

A Guide to the Anti-Anxiety Diet that Helped Me Manage Anxiety

As mentioned above, in this article I'm ONLY going to focus on the anti-anxiety diet that helped me reduce anxiety through food. 

This diet started off as a basic food list given to me by a phytotherapist. But over the years, I added many other elements, habits, ingredients and techniques after doing extensive research into nutrition.

The moment I realized how food can help anxiety I became obsessed with learning about healthy eating. 

I read hundreds of nutrition books and articles, watched countless documentaries, attended seminars, and workshops to expand my knowledge of healthy eating. 

Also, I tried and tested the effects of various diets on anxiety, ranging from Mediterranean, vegan, raw vegan, vegetarian, high-protein, high-fat, low carb, and macrobiotic diets, to perfect the food that I was eating.

The anti-anxiety diet that I’m sharing with you in this article is a combination of:

  • The basic anti-anxiety food list that I was given by my phytotherapist
  • Everything I've learned about nutrition, and
  • My experience of managing anxiety through food and various healthy diets.

 Before we get started, please note the following points:

  • To help you implement my anti anxiety diet I've broken it down into 11 principles or guidelines.
  • I’ve also included scientific evidence where available. If you don’t like science, I suggest you skip these sections and only focus on the "explanations" and the "pink box summaries". 
  • The only reason I've included scientific evidence is because it's available. But even if I didn't find any scientific evidence to back up my anti-anxiety diet I'd be still sharing it with you, because I know it can significantly reduce anxiety symptoms, and in some cases conquer this mental health condition altogether.

Anti-Anxiety Diet Principle # 1: Eat Natural Whole Foods

For your body and mind to function properly, you need to get all your essential nutrients through food.

These include carbohydrates, proteins, fats, vitamins and minerals.

The best way to optimize your intake of these nutrients is to eat natural, whole foods or minimally processed foods.

  • Natural whole foods include vegetables, whole grains, legumes, fruit, herbs, nuts, and seeds, as well as fresh meat and fish.
  • Minimally processed foods are those that have gone through minimal refinement and still contain many beneficial nutrients – for example, fresh tofu, seitan, stone-ground flours, whole-wheat pasta, natural liquid whey, and groats.

Eating natural whole foods also involves limiting the intake of chemicals in foods from conventional farming by choosing organic, local, and seasonal whenever possible.

Foods that are not considered natural foods, and should be therefore excluded on this anti-anxiety diet are the following:

  • refined grains
  • foods with preservatives, additives, and artificial flavors
  • foods high in salt, sugar and saturated fat
  • processed meats
  • junk food
  • and other refined foods
The Science

Studies show that anxiety, depression and other common mental disorders are linked to deficiencies in certain nutrients including


  • B vitamins
  • Antioxidants – vitamin C, E, and A
  • Omega 3 essential fatty acids
  • Magnesium
  • and other minerals including manganese, selenium, iron, and zinc.

Eating natural whole foods, or minimally processed foods is a perfect strategy to counteract nutrient deficiencies.

Summary: Eat Natural Whole Foods (Principle # 1)

Consume natural whole foods – vegetables, whole grains, legumes, fruit, herbs, nuts, seeds, fresh meat, and fish – while avoid processed foods.

Anti-Anxiety Diet Principle # 2: Get Plenty of Fiber

Dietary fiber is essential for gut health, and a healthy gut is necessary to manage your anxiety.

The best source of dietary fiber are fruits, vegetables, whole grains, legumes, nuts, and seeds.

The top 27 high-fiber foods include:

  • avocados, apples, pears, bananas, apples, prunes
  • acorn squash, turnips, beets, carrots, broccoli, brussels sprouts, parsnips
  • quinoa, oats, brown rice, buckwheat, millet, amaranth, black beans, chickpeas, lima beans, split peas, lentils
  • almonds, walnuts, flaxseeds, and chia seeds.
The Science

There is growing evidence that an unhealthy gut is a potential cause of mental illness including anxiety and depression.


Studies also show that consuming high-fiber foods is beneficial for managing anxiety because dietary fiber helps to keep your digestive tract healthy by

  • promoting regular bowel movements
  • preventing constipation, feeding healthy bacteria, and
    sweeping out toxins.

There are two types of dietary fiber – soluble fiber and insoluble fiber – and both are important for your digestive health.

  • Soluble fiber dissolves in water and forms a gel-like substance in the large intestines (colon). It slows down digestion and nutrient absorption.
  • Insoluble fiber does not dissolve in water and is left intact. It helps to speed up the passage of food through the digestive tract and it also adds bulk to the stool.

Most high fiber-rich foods contain both soluble and insoluble fiber but in varying quantities.

Summary: Get Plenty of Fiber (Principle # 2)

Get plenty of fiber in your daily diet by eating a variety of high-fiber foods.

Anti-Anxiety Diet Principle # 3: Load up Your Plate with Whole Grains

Whole grains are calming foods that should be consumed daily when managing anxiety.

I have been consuming whole grains for breakfast, lunch, and dinner for a number of years now and I can’t begin to tell you how much they have helped me to improve my mental health.

It’s important to eat a variety of whole grains to optimize your intake of different beneficial nutrients.

I have found that it’s particularly helpful to eat whole grains for breakfast.

Like many other anxiety sufferers, I had a lot of problems with morning anxiety and eating breakfast with whole grains would help me to calm my anxiety before starting my day.

The healthiest whole grains include brown rice, millet, spelt, buckwheat, quinoa, organic corn, and unsweetened oats.

Soak your grains in water overnight. This is important for effective digestion of grains.

The Science

Patients with mental disorders are usually deficient in omega–3 fatty acids, B vitamins, minerals, and amino acids that are precursors to neurotransmitters.

Whole grains are…

  • rich in complex carbohydrates helping to stabilize blood sugar
  • contain minerals such as magnesium, manganese, iron, phosphorus, selenium,
  • as well as B vitamins,
  • and contain healthy fats

…making them great anti-anxiety foods.


They also provide tryptophan, an amino acid that your body needs to produce serotonin and melatonin neurotransmitters.

Serotonin, is a feel-good hormone, while melatonin (“sleep hormone”) helps to establish and maintain steady sleep cycles, which are both crucial to managing anxiety.

Summary: Load up Your Plate with Whole Grains (Principle # 3)

Whole grains are great anti-anxiety foods. They are rich in complex carbs and many other important nutrients often deficient in anxiety sufferers. Use whole grains for managing morning anxiety.

Anti-Anxiety Diet Principle # 4: Make Vegetables a Priority

Eat plenty of vegetables every day.

Consuming a variety of vegetables and whole grains can help you effectively manage your anxiety.

Eat a variety of starchy and non-starchy vegetables to optimize your intake of nutrients.

  • Non-starchy vegetables – Swiss chard, onions, leeks, artichokes, celery, turnips, and zucchini
  • Starchy vegetables – carrots, pumpkin, beets, celeriac, winter squash (i.e. acorn or butternut squash), parsnips, and peas.

Although tomatoes, cumbers, peppers, lettuce, and potatoes are very popular foods, they should be limited when managing anxiety.

Tomatoes are very acidic, potatoes are high in starch and can affect blood sugar, while peppers, cucumbers, and lettuce are better replaced with warm steamed vegetables.

Warm foods have a more calming effect than cold or raw foods. 

I was on a raw vegan diet for 6 months, and I know how raw foods affect anxiety. Although I noticed improvements in some of my other health issues during that phase, my anxiety was very high on this type of diet.

Raw foods can be great for some people, but I recommend that you limit your intake of raw and cold foods while trying to get your anxiety under control.

This also means limiting your consumption of salads, raw juices, and smoothies. I would even eliminate juices and smoothies completely.

The Science


Like whole grains, vegetables are rich in complex carbohydrates which help to keep your blood sugar stable.

Vegetables also contain vitamins, minerals, fiber, antioxidants, healthy plant compounds, and many other beneficial nutrients.

Their packed nutritional value nourishes your cells and the nervous system helping you calm down.

Summary: Make Vegetables a Priority (Principle # 4)

Make warm vegetables your priority and eat a variety of non-starchy and starchy vegetables. Limit your intake of raw foods, cold foods as well as tomatoes, cumbers, peppers, lettuce, and potatoes.

ANTI-ANXIETY DIET infographic

Anti-Anxiety Diet Principle # 5: Avoid Foods that are Too Salty, Too Spicy, Too Sweet or Too Sour

Over the years, I noticed whenever I avoided foods such as limes, lemons, oranges and vinegar, spicy meals, sugar, sweet fruits, and salty foods I noticed positive effects on my anxiety.

But as soon I started eating these foods again, I experienced higher levels of anxiety, as well as white tongue coating, bad breath, vaginal itchiness, and acne.

Not all people are likely to experience anxiety from eating too salty, too spicy, too sweet, or too sour foods, but if you are struggling to manage your anxiety this is something I would definitely recommend.

Ayurvedic Medicine

Foods that are too salty, too spicy, too sweet, or too sour can negatively affect anxiety levels.


According to ayurvedic medicine, these types of foods excite (raise adrenaline levels – stress hormone) and intoxicate.

Although I cannot back this up with scientific research, I know it holds in practice.

Summary: Avoid Foods that are Too Salty, Too Sweet, Too Spicy or Too Sour (Principle # 5)

Avoid eating foods that are too salty, too spicy, too sweet, or too sour.

Anti-Anxiety Diet Principle # 6: Choose Healthy Proteins

Proteins are an essential nutrient.

The healthiest sources of protein are natural foods that are high in protein but low in fat, especially low in saturated fat and trans-fats.

16 of the healthiest sources of protein include:

  • Lean protein – Chicken and turkey breast without the skin
  • Fish – cod, halibut, haddock, flounder, or tuna.
  • Plant protein – quinoa, beans, lentils, seitan, organic tofu, sunflower seeds, flaxseeds, pumpkin seeds, almonds

Most plant proteins are not complete proteins, meaning they don’t contain all the 9 essential amino acids required to build a human protein.

But this is easily resolved by combining foods.

Combine whole grains and legumes, or nuts/seeds and legumes to get a complete protein.

This is why rice and peas are eaten together in some cultures.

The Science

Studies show that saturated and trans fats can cause inflammation, which in turn impacts mood disorders.

Summary: Choose Healthy Proteins (Principle # 6)

Consume a variety of healthy animal and plant sources of protein. When consuming plant sources of protein make sure you include whole grains or nuts and seeds in your meals.

Anti-Anxiety Diet Principle # 7: Include Good Fats in Your Meals

Healthy fats are essential for mental health and according to research Omega 3 fatty acids are often low in anxiety patients.

The healthiest sources of fats and essential fats include:

  • almonds, walnuts, flaxseeds, hemp seeds, sesame seeds, pumpkin seeds
  • extra virgin oil, extra virgin coconut oil
  • avocado
  • fatty fish
  • organic and fresh tofu
  • algae

Fatty fish, algae, and flaxseeds are great sources of omega 3 fatty acids.

The Science

Omega-3 fatty acids and omega-6 fatty acids are essential fats that we need for proper body functioning. Further, Omega 3 is especially important for mental health.

Omega 3 and 6 are unsaturated fats.


Summary: Include Good Fats in Your Meal (Principle # 7)

Include healthy fats in your diet and make sure you eat foods rich in omega 3 fatty acids each week.

Anti-Anxiety Diet Principle # 8: Limit Fruit to Less-Sweet Varieties

Fruits are high in simple sugars and can cause spikes in blood sugar after consumption. Blood sugar spikes are followed by sudden drops, that can raise anxiety levels.

But fruit also contains many important nutrients.

So, fruit should be consumed but in limited quantities. 

Less sweet fruits such as pears, green bananas, apples, papaya, mango, and berries are the best choice.

Choose organic whenever you can as fruit can be very high in pesticides.

Summary: Limit Fruit to Less Sweet Varieties (Principle # 8)

Limit fruit to less-sweet fruits and avoid consuming fruit in large quantities.

Anti-Anxiety Diet Principle # 9: Avoid Dairy

Dairy is one of the worst anxiety foods and should be avoided or preferably eliminated.

Foods such as milk, butter, yogurt, cream, ice-cream, margarine, or any other milk byproducts are anxiety triggers foods.

But there is one exception, and that is natural whey, the leftover liquid in cheesemaking when milk curds have been separated and removed. Unpasteurized liquid whey is very rich in beneficial nutrients and has many health benefits and healing properties.

The Science: Dairy

Studies show that intake of dairy is associated with increased depression, anxiety, stress, cognitive failures, and poorer memory functioning, as well as many other health issues.

  • Milk contains a simple sugar called lactose, and while infants and children produce enzymes that break down this type of sugar, most adults don’t have this capacity and are thus lactose intolerant.
  • In the United States, for example, 75 percent of Americans are lactose intolerant.
  • If your digestive system cannot effectively break down lactose, then consuming milk and its byproducts can result in inflammation.
  • Research shows that “inflammation induces anxiety-like behavior and alters central nervous system biochemistry”.
  • Casein protein in milk has also been linked to cancer including prostate cancer, lung cancer, breast cancer, and ovarian cancer in people with lactose intolerance.
  • Studies show that “anxiety is common in cancer patient populations”.
The Science: Natural Liquid Whey

The only dairy product that is beneficial for managing your anxiety is natural liquid whey, and preferably kefir whey because it is 99% lactose-free.

Natural whey is the byproduct of cheesemaking. After milk curdles there is a separation of casein (milk curds) and whey, the translucent liquid that is yellowish-green in color.

Casein and whey are both milk proteins and while casein is inflammatory and has been linked to cancer; whey is anti-inflammatory, and has many health benefits and healing properties. In Ancient Greek medicine whey was known as “healing water”.

Natural Liquid Whey is rich in beneficial nutrients:
  • Amino acids (building blocks for protein) – Whey is a complete protein that is exceptionally easy to digest and absorb. In contrast, casein is a slow-digesting protein. 
  • Minerals – whey is rich in potassium, calcium, magnesium, and phosphorus. 
  • Vitamins – whey also contains several vitamins including A, B1, B2, B3, B5, B6, C, D, and E, though in somewhat lesser quantities than minerals.
Natural Liquid Whey Health Benefits
  • Reduces cortisol levels (stress hormone)
  • Improves serotonin production (“feel-good” hormone)
  • Anti-inflammatory
  • Boosts antioxidant activity
  • Increases immunity
  • Probiotic (kefir whey)
  • 99% lactose-free (kefir whey)
  • Boost digestion 

Natural liquid whey is not to be confused with whey protein powders, which are processed versions of whey.

Summary: Avoid Dairy (Principle # 9)

Avoid dairy or even better eliminate completely, with the exception of natural liquid whey. Unpasteurized natural liquid whey is great anti-anxiety food.

Anti-Anxiety Diet Principle # 10: Give Importance to Your Proportions 

Carbs are the body’s preferred source of energy and since we need energy for every function in the body and brain, carbs need to make the bulk of our calories.

The World Health Organization recommends that carbohydrates should be between 55 and 75 percent of our total calorie intake.

The rest of your calories should come from healthy sources of protein and fat.

The healthiest source of carbs is whole grains and vegetables.

As mentioned above these foods are sugar stabilizing and are loaded with other essential nutrients including vitamins, minerals antioxidants, fatty acids, proteins, fiber, and other beneficial plant compounds.

Anxiety is linked to nutrient deficiencies and eating foods that are packed with a variety of nutrients is essential for managing anxiety.

Summary: Give Importance to Your Proportions (Principle # 10)

Make healthy carbs the bulk of your calories (up to 75% of your total calorie intake). The rest of your calories should come from healthy sources of fat and protein. Watch a video on how to serve these proportions on your plate

Anti-Anxiety Diet Principle # 11: Eat Lots of Brown Rice 

As mentioned above, whole grains are great anti-anxiety foods.

But brown rice is the king of grains and the number one anti-anxiety food.

It’s not a coincidence that brown rice has been consumed for centuries and that it’s a staple food across 100 countries around the world.

Eat brown rice at every opportunity and make sure you consume it at least 3 times a week, more if you wish.

Brown rice is an incredibly calming food, especially when consumed plain on an empty stomach first thing in the morning.

The Science

Brown rice contains B vitamins, vitamin E, fatty acids, magnesium, manages, zinc, iron, and selenium – often deficient in anxiety sufferers.

Plus, it’s also a great source of carbohydrates, fiber, and plant protein.

Summary: Eat Lots of Brown Rice (Principle # 11)

Eat brown rice at least three times a week.

Applying this Anti-Anxiety Diet in Your Daily Life

I appreciate that this article has a lot of information to take in.

But that’s why I've tried to break it down into 11 principles, and then  further into the following groups "science, explanation, and summary" to help you use this as a guide going forward.

After all, the last thing I want to do is to cause you more anxiety!

To help you even more, check out below how you can apply this diet in your daily life.

  • Breakfast: Whole grains with lightly sprinkled nuts and/or seeds.
  • Snack: Piece of fruit
  • Lunch: Use ingredients such as vegetables, whole grains, nuts, seeds, and legumes
  • Dinner: Take a 9-inch plate, fill ¾ of your plate with vegetables and whole grains (carbohydrates), add healthy sources of protein, and include good fats
  • Note: your consumption of nuts and seeds daily should not exceed a handful.

Anti-Anxiety Diet Meal Plan

  • Breakfast – Oatmeal with linseeds and almonds
  • Snack – Apple
  • Lunch – Pumpkin soup with a few roasted pumpkin seeds. A portion of millet on the side.
  • Snack – Pear
  • Dinner - Brown rice with steamed vegetables (swiss chard, carrots, and zucchini), grilled salmon, and dash of olive oil, salt, and basil

Final Thoughts on the Anti-Anxiety Diet that Helped Me

Essential nutrients such as carbs, proteins, fats, vitamins and minerals are essential for physical and mental health. Studies show that patients with anxiety disorders are likely to have unhealthy eating habits and nutritional deficiencies.

The best way to optimize your intake of nutrients is to eat a healthy and balanced diet based on natural whole foods including vegetables, whole grains, legumes, fruit, nuts and seeds, as well as fresh fish and lean meats.

You should avoid eating dairy, spices, sugary foods and processed foods. 

If you adopt healthy eating you can expect to reduce and better manage your anxiety symptoms. Anti-anxiety eating helped to get my anxiety under control.

Combine your healthy eating habits with gentle exercise and other healthy lifestyle changes to optimize your results. 

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I'm a Heart-Based Life Coach for Gentle Anxiety Sufferers. After two decades of chronic anxiety and self-hate, I managed to conquer both, and experience a huge spiritual transformation in the process. This incredible journey inspired me to pursue my dreams and help other gentle anxiety sufferers. I’m not a mental health professional, but I’m someone who has studied intensively about anxiety and achieved success with everything I learned. If you’re a gentle soul who is struggling with anxiety and would like my help, I’d love to coach you. Check out my free and paid coaching services.

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